Between Us
Keep Us Talking
Between Us is a private space for the two of you — one app on each of your phones, synced privately through your own iCloud. (Sharing a single phone works too.) No sign-ups, no server, and we can never see a word of it.
Four small steps to a better conversation.
Enter both of your names, then pair your two phones through your own iCloud (one tap to invite, one tap to accept).
Answer a questionnaire on your own phone, whenever you have a minute.
When you have both finished, compare your answers side by side.
Talk it through, or jump into a quick lightning round.
Everything you need to keep talking.
Texts I'm Not Going to Send
Wrote the angry text? Park it here behind a 5–60 minute timer instead (with its own passcode). When the timer ends, send it if it still needs saying — or tap “Never Sending.” Most of them never need to go.
Notes to Each Other
Your own private thread: kind words, photos, voice notes, replies, and little hearts.
Sunday Pulse
Four little questions once a week: the high, the hard, one need, one appreciation.
40+ questionnaires
Daily wishes, money, the invisible load, your histories, hopes and dreams, and “Through Their Eyes” (answer about your spouse, then compare with their real answers).
Lightning Round
The same question on both phones, live, taking turns.
Date Night Deck
Draw a small adventure for the two of you.
Guided Conversation
One topic, each person heard, then one small thing each of you will try.
Saved Between Us
Press and hold any note to keep it forever, then turn your keepers into a printable keepsake book.
Home-screen widget
The newest note from your spouse, right on your home screen (with a privacy mode).
Ways People Grow
Plain-language introductions to CBT, EFT, mindfulness, and the Gottman method, with exercises (we're not therapists, and we say so).
Just Us
A private corner for married intimacy: ask for what you'd love, save a request for your anniversary, and leave appreciations that start with “I remember when…”
Our Bucket List
Soon and someday, suggested by either of you, done together.
The Bookshelf
Real marriage books worth your evenings. Add your own, track what you're each reading, and recommend one to your spouse.
And the little things
Affirmations, saved agreements, gentle optional reminders, and a dark mode that follows your phone.
Only the two of you can read it.
No accounts, no tracking, no ads, and no server of ours. Your words stay on your phones — and if you pair two phones, they travel only through your own iCloud with end-to-end encryption. The keys live in your iCloud Keychain, so no one else can read a word — not us, not anyone.